First, let me start by saying, NO...I’m not joking. I’ll be the first to admit that I’m already feeling pangs of separation
anxiety at the mere thought of saying
goodbye to our Elves on Christmas Eve.
Elves have invaded thousands (if not millions) of homes around the world. Along the way they’ve even stolen a few
hearts. It was over for me a long time ago...really...I never stood a chance. I look forward to the time our
Elves spend with us ALL year long. I plot and plan and eagerly await their
return each year with an unreasonable amount of excitement.
I know that not everyone feels this way. Maybe you’re one of
those who will actually be happy to send your Elf packin’. The pressure of hosting an Elf
over the holidays really gets to some people. It’s a BIG responsibility…trust
me, I know. I get it.
I totally understand
that my personal attachment to these
magical creatures borders on, shall we say, unhealthy.
However, I have also come to the realization that I’m NOT alone! There are
plenty of other people out there Elf-in
it up over the holidays and that knowledge gives me immense comfort. I feel
like a little less of a lunatic knowing that others share this crazy ELF
OBSESSION!
Regardless of whether you have grown to love or despise your Elf,
chances are your kiddos are going to be sad to see them go. Last year, actual tears were shed when mine realized
that our Elves were really (REALLY) gone on Christmas afternoon.
I have to admit, it even took me a few
days to get over their departure….and by “a few days” I really mean 330 days, until we were reunited again.
Making magic is fun. Going back to folding laundry and washing
dishes during naptime just doesn’t bring me the same amount of joy.
I am curious to see if things are different this year. My 4
year old has really been testing the Elves and questioning the depths of their
magical abilities. He’s also mentioned a couple of times that even though he
loves our Elves, it isn’t nice to tattle. So who knows, maybe the kids will be relieved when the pressure of all
those tiny eyes watching their every move has been lifted.
For now, I’m going to move forward by emotionally preparing
my family (i.e. myself) for our Elves’
inevitable desertion. If you’ve been fostering a borderline obsessive attachment
toward the Elves in your life, this compilation of coping mechanisms might
help.
{10 Ideas to Help you Prepare for your Elf on the Shelf's Departure}
1.
Help your Elf prepare for his journey home. Last year we gave Mack his own tiny little
suitcase (made out of a vintage jewelry box with a pipe cleaner added as a handle).
It was packed with a few goodies and treats to comfort him and help him get
back to the North Pole safely. The kids liked doing something nice for their
Elf, and it was a gentle reminder that he wasn’t going to be around the next
day.
2.
Write your Elf a goodbye letter. Let the kiddos
dictate exactly what they’d like to say and then leave it out overnight. We did
this a couple of days early last year, that way our Elf posse had time to
respond before they left for the North Pole. If you want to write your own…just from you…that’s okay too. Clearly, I’m
not here to judge.
3.
Start planning for next year! See a cute Elf
idea,
PIN IT! Find a perfect mini-sized
whatever,
stash it away! I have an entire box of Elf props that I add to throughout the
year. Then, when our Elves come home for the holidays we have our own bag of
tricks to entertain them with!
4.
Have your Elf make a surprise visit once or
twice throughout the year! Last summer our Elves visited us twice. Each time,
Santa sent a letter along excusing them from their duties at the North Pole and
giving them permission to take the day off. The kids were BEYOND excited! Oh and…it’s also the PERFECT way to keep
the kids on their toes. Nothing like a little reminder that Santa is watching….always, always…watching.
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| Elf-sized popsicles made out of Mike & Ikes...the perfect poolside treat! |
5.
Ask your Elf to be your family’s Pen-pal while
they are away! Our Elves have been known to send an occasional email or even a
teeny-tiny handwritten letter. It’s nice to stay in touch J This is also another
great opportunity to remind your kids to walk
the line.
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| We've had TONS of fun with this! It's The World's Smallest Post Service and comes with everything you need to write teeny-tiny letters and make itsy-bitsy packages! |
6.
Make some special mini-sized treats, or an
entire meal, for your Elf and leave them out with Santa’s cookies on Christmas
Eve. The kids have SO much fun with this. It’s a sweet way for them to say
goodbye and thank-you at the same time.
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| This is the meal we created to welcome our Elves home on Thanksgiving. The "turkey" was made using small bone-shaped sprinkles, topped with a piece of caramel. "Green bean" sprinkles and tiny rolls finished off the plates. |
7.
Have your Elf leave a special present, just from
him, for the kiddos to unwrap on Christmas Day. Last year Mack wrote a very
sweet goodbye letter to the kids and sent them on a hunt through the house to find
the gift he left!
8.
Throw your Elf a Going Away Party! You could use
any of the ideas from our
Elf Party…but really, it doesn’t have to be
elaborate. Make a few elf-sized treats and a farewell card and call it good.
The kids will love spending a little time creating something for their Elf to
enjoy!
9.
Go BIG or go HOME! If you have been waiting all
month to execute the cutest little Elf scheme…NOW is the time! Just do it…who
cares if it seems over-the-top or
silly. It might be extra work, and require you to do a little cleaning up (or
whatev)…but it could also be one of the best memories you make this year! Going
all out can be as much fun for you as the kiddos. My son still talks about some
of the shenanigans our Elves got into LAST
Christmas…and it just melts my Elf-lovin’ heart!
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10.
This one is gonna rock your world: let the kids
TOUCH the ELF!
Wh-What!?!? I know this goes against the number one rule of hosting
an Elf…no touching! Well…we’re gonna go rogue this year and try something new. The
kids are going to receive a letter from Santa that gives them permission to
give each of our Elves ONE goodbye hug on Christmas Eve, before they go to bed
for the night. I think this will be a huge hit, and very special…we’ll see
;)
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I really could go on and on with this list…that’s how DEEP
my Elf-love runs. This time is SO short and the window of opportunity doesn’t
stay open long. I’m going to keep making this magic for as long as my kids go
along with it. Maybe at some point they’ll be doing it for me instead.
Now if you’ll excuse me, I need to go spend some quality
time with the Elves in my life…while I still can!
If you want to keep up (or catch-up) with our Elf Family check these links:
~ Details from our Magical Elf Party
HERE!
~ My Elf Idea Pinboard
HERE.
~ Feature at Elfshaming.com
HERE.
That's it...feel free to stalk them...what goes around comes around right!??!?
